Oga Obinna, the multi-talented comedian, radio presenter, and content creator, has opened up about a deeply personal experience—a failed relationship—that forced him to confront the complex interplay between love and ambition. His candid account reveals the emotional turmoil he faced when his then-girlfriend opposed his decision to gift a car to fellow artist, Dem Wa Facebook.
The story unfolded during a seemingly ordinary drive to pick up his children from school, with the radio playing softly in the background. Obinna's reflection on this past relationship provides insight into the challenges of balancing personal desires with the expectations of a partnership.
In September 2024, Obinna was moved by Dem Wa Facebook's struggles with transportation, particularly the high cost of weekly cab fares from Kayole, amounting to KSh 5,000. Believing in the power of supporting fellow creatives, he decided to surprise her with a car. "Why shouldn't I help a fellow creative shine?" he reasoned. However, when he shared his plan with his girlfriend, he encountered strong resistance.
His girlfriend questioned his priorities, urging him to focus on their own needs. "Wacha niokotwe! We have things we need to do. That money we could put into important things," she argued. Obinna, driven by an impulsive desire to uplift someone, found his intentions rejected. Despite her disapproval, he reassured her that he was "just joking," while secretly planning to make his dream a reality.
Without her knowledge, Obinna began saving and sending money to his car dealer, Mwangi, envisioning the joy on Dem Wa Facebook's face when she received her new car. However, the reality of the surprise was far from the idealized vision he had in mind.
On the day of the car reveal, Obinna, filled with excitement, returned home only to face his girlfriend's anger. "I told you not to get this, and you went ahead and did it! That money you could have done something important," she reprimanded him. The gift, intended as a gesture of support and creativity, was perceived as an act of defiance.
Obinna attempted to explain that his finances were under control and that his creative drive compelled him to take risks. However, his perspective was met with resistance, leading to a significant rift in their relationship.
Despite the emotional turmoil, Obinna emerged from the experience with greater self-awareness and a deeper understanding of his own values. "As a creative, I see visions that others may not. It's not merely about the money; it's about dreams and aspirations," he reflects. This experience has shaped his views on personal relationships and reinforced his commitment to philanthropic endeavors.
Beyond his entertainment career, Oga Obinna is dedicated to making a positive impact. He allocates a portion of his income to children's homes and founded the Wawec (Wanaume Wellness Center) initiative, focusing on male empowerment. Through his personal experiences, he encourages others to learn from his mistakes, particularly in navigating relationships, ambitions, and responsibilities.
As Obinna continues to share his stories and insights on his YouTube show, he demonstrates that every experience, even heartbreak, offers valuable lessons for personal growth. His journey underscores the importance of pursuing one's dreams while remaining mindful of the relationships that shape our lives.
By sharing his story of love, disappointment, and redemption, Oga Obinna inspires audiences to pursue their passions while valuing the relationships that define their paths. He reminds us that even bumpy rides can lead to valuable lessons about vulnerability and the power of uplifting others.
